Lame excuse of a muslimah to keep her photos on facebook

When a Muslimah hears that it is Haram to put her personal picture on Facebook, she gives this argument:"but this is me; this is the face people see when I go out to the street. So what is the difference if people see my face on Facebook or in the street?"
This is the answer for that: First of all, when you put your picture as a profile pic on Facebook you are causing Fitnah to your brothers in Islam because you don’t help them to lower their gaze even if you are wearing your Hijab in that picture.

In the street you suppose to lower your gaze as they (Muslim men) are suppose to lower theirs. But on internet, it’s different! Because any boy would feel that he is free to look to your picture as he wants, the moment he wants because you are showing it to the whole world, So sister, How can you let any stranger's glances travel over your face, eyes, lips, etc...? how can you let his eyes eating your body like that?

Any Boy on Facebook would think it is his right to look to the picture you are displaying in front of him forgetting that Allah is watching him. He is disobeying Allah of.course, but think; who led him to this disobedience?

Second, generally, people in the street can't take picture of you whenever you go out but on Facebook strangers men can easily
upload your picture and keep it for them without you know about it. Think about it, they can use it in creating false Facebook profiles or use them in'dating sites'or any other social site, or worse, they can even edit it and spread it on net just for fun. This is something which happened to many many poor Muslim girls, so what if it happened to you too? Keeping your picture on Facebook even after knowing that this may happen to you, makes you guilty just as the person who may upload it.

Third, think how many sins you will have for everyman who will look at you and admire your beauty? Are you ready to handle carrying all thesesins? Think about every Muslim girl who will be impressed by the way you’re displaying your picture so she does the same thinking it is OK to do it. Are you ready to hold the burden of sins of these girls?

"Whoever starts (or sets an example of) something evil in Islam, will bear the burden for that, and a burden equal to that of everyone who does it after him, without that detracting from their burden in the slightest."[Mus ­ lim]

please sisters! Think twice before putting your personal picture on Facebook. Don’t say “I will remove it one day” because you don’t know if you will live till that day. Not"if"but"When ­"that day will come, you will leave behind you sayyah Jaryah (continuous bad deed). So are you sure you can handle all these sins while you are in your grave?

STAY AWAY FROM THE THINGS THAT WILL ONLY HINDER YOU FROM GROWING IN THE DEEN & THE REMEMBRANCE OF ALLAH
May ALLAH forgive us all. amiin yaRabbal'alaamiin
 Please do your duty to spread the true message of Islam; Like, Share with others and let the world know; Insha Allah,ﻪﻠﻟﺍ will grant you the Reward tor spreading righteousness 

No Boyfriends!

As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy English, means `sexual sin'. Allah expressly forbids romantic or sexual relationships outside of marriage. When people go against that rule, then you get the typical western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with each other, giving each other STDs, using and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of marriage as an institution. You can't even be sort of engaged to a guy, and then "date" to get to know each other. In Islam, non-Mahram men and women aren't allowed to be alone together (that includes talking o*!n the phone!), to touch (not even shake hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn't matter if the guy you like is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you can't date him.

No Boy—friends!
The easiest way to ensure that you don't end up falling in love with some guy before you

're ready to get married is to avoid making friends with boys. Of course in school you have to interact with boys all over the place, but that doesn't mean you should be best buds with them. Probably 90% of relationships begin from friendships. Chances are you're not ready for marriage, your parents aren't ready to let you get married, you're still in school/college and your crush is not the sort of fellow you want to spend the rest of your life with, so just avoid being friends with him in the first place. It really is the best formula for saving yourself from needless temptation. When you have to talk to boys in school as teammates, lab partners, group members, and peers, it's best to maintain a distance. That means that you don't confide in them, you don't let down your guard, you don't unnecessarily engage them in needless conversation, don't joke around, and never flirt. Yeah it may be a little hard, but this is your afterlife we're talking about. So many great sisters have put themselves in really sticky situations because they allowed a boy to get to know them, and either ended up liking the boy, or having the boy like them. o*!nce that happens you either end up becoming a pair (which is HARAAM!), or having to end your friendship. Instead of letting it get to that point, and then having to kill a friendship that you probably worked hard o*!n cultivating, you should just stop it before it begins. There are plenty of great girls all around who can be your friends and if you really think o*!nly a guy will understand your problem, then talk to your REAL brother, or your father, or an uncle.

TEN THOUGHTS TO PONDER

1) Remember that your Lord forgives those who ask Him for forgiveness and He accepts the repentance of those who repent and He accepts those who come back to Him.

2) Show mercy to the weak and you'll be happy, give ...to the needy and you'll be well, do not bear grudges and you will be healthy.

3) Be optimistic, for Allah is with you. He is listening to you and the Paradise awaits you (In sha Allah)

4) Wipe away your tears, think well of your Lord and chase away your worries by remembering the blessings that Allah has bestowed upon you.

5) Do not think that this world is ever perfect for anyone. There is no one on the face of the earth who gets all that he wants or is free from all kinds of distress.

6) Be like a tall tree with high aims, if a stone is thrown at it, it simply lets its fruit drop.

7) Have you ever heard that grief brings back what has been lost, or that worry corrects mistake? So why grieve and worry then?

8) Do not expect trials and calamities, rather expect peace, safety and good health (In sha Allah).

9) Extinguish the flames of hatred from your heart by forgiving everyone who has ever hurt you.

10) Ghusl, wudhu and siwak and being calm and organised are effective medicines for all kinds of distress and worry.